Last Longer in Bed

Many people struggle to last longer in bed, so don’t worry you are not alone. According to experts, almost every man faces the problem of premature ejaculation at some in his life.

It’s believed that there are two ways to last longer in bed, physical and psychological treatment. “While physical remedies target the sensations you feel during sex, psychological solutions address your worry, stress, or other mental factors that may explain your quick trigger, said Thomas J. Walsh, M.D., a urologist at the University of Washington to MensHealth. 

But remember duration isn’t the most important mantra for great sex, along with it you need to even know how to please her in bed.

Here are few tips by experts to deal with premature ejaculation. But be warned: Dr. Walsh recommends trying these out on your own before attempting them during sex.

  • Biofeedback

In simple term this means that one can keep a check on ones neurophysiology or how you might react to physical sensations. While there are a lot of different types of biofeedback, one of the most common for lasting longer in bed is to bring yourself right to the edge of orgasm before stopping all sexual or masturbatory activity until you have your excitement under control, explains Dr. Walsh.

This also teaches your brain and body to control your orgasm response. Apply lots of lube or cream while you practice this to avoid chaffing yourself, advises Emily Morse, Ph.D.

  • Squeeze

If you feel you are about to come, stop and squeeze right below the head of your penis. “Apply firm pressure with your thumb and forefinger and focus the pressure on the urethra—the tube running along the underside of the penis,” advises Ian Kerner, Ph.D., a sex therapist and author of She Comes First.

This helps you to last longer in bed and decreases the sexual tension.

  • Remember ladies first

If you help her to finish first it automatically reduces the pressure to last longer in bed. Remember you are an artist in bed, use your finger or mouth and let her get an orgasm first.

  • De- Sensitizers

There are sprays called “local anesthetics” that you can apply on your penis. This reduces the sensation and gives you more control. Remember to use it in a right amount so that it’s not transferred to your partner.

  • Condoms

Condom that have extra-thick rubber can act like a slip-on desensitizer for your member and helps you last longer in bed, according to report in MensHealth. Look for condoms packs that have lingo like “extended pleasure” or “performax” or “for long lasting”.

  • Pills

There are various pills available in the market that helps you last konger, in fact in many parts of the world men pop a pill to become erect. But you should consult your doctor while opting for this.

  • Consult an expert

If you feel you have tried everything that was possible without any success, it’s time to consult a sexual dysfunction specialist. “He or she will help you approach this practically and pragmatically,” Dr. Walsh says, adding It’s about learning the physical or mental mechanisms that can help you Avoid Premature Ejaculation.”

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What to do when your partner suggests an extra marital one night stand?!

Couple having foreplay and sex under the shower

90% of couples say that sex is an important part of a relationship, with 23% saying that it is incredibly important, so what happens when one of you loses your sex drive or wants the excitement of going elsewhere for one night only?

Having sex with someone who isn’t your partner isn’t necessarily a deal breaker if you are in an otherwise happy relationship. In fact, having an arrangement with your partner which allows one or both of you to sleep with someone else is becoming so common now that it even has its own name, “ethical non-monogamy”.

Out of 64,000 couples questioned, 5% said that they felt that their relationship worked because they were able to have sex with other people, and that doing this actually helps them to feel more connected to their partner as what they have with them is so much more than just a physical bond.

Are you cheating? 

With a shocking 1 in 3 married individuals admitting to cheating on their partner, it may seem like a more honest way of living to let them know what you are doing rather than carrying on behind their back and hoping that they never find out, as this will only cause extra strain on the relationship.


If things are not working out in the bedroom, or you’ve lost your spark, and this is making you unhappy it is only natural to want to find the thing that it is which is missing from your life, and it may be that your partner would be comfortable for you to do this.

In a survey carried out by OnePulse last year, they found that out of 1000 people in relationships 1 in 5 said that they would allow their partner to have sex with someone else if they had gone off it, 7% would suggest it themselves, and 20% said that they would be comfortable to go ahead with it if their partner came up with the idea.

The survey also found that sex is more important to men than women, although this importance decreases over time whereas the importance of sex to women remains the same no matter how old they are.

Adult Dating is easy with Naughty Seniors 

If you are going to suggest to your partner that they should sleep with someone else because you have lost your sex drive, you should not automatically assume that they will be thrilled about the idea so it should be approached with caution.

They might have been thinking the same things themselves but been worried about bringing it up, or they might be upset that you would suggest that they might want to do such a thing. So always keep this in mind if it is a conversation that you would like to have with them.

Should your partner offer you the opportunity to sleep with someone else you may be wondering what to do next if this something that you would be interested in trying out.

An adult dating site such as Naughty Seniors is the perfect place to find someone for a one night stand as there are plenty of other people looking for the exact same thing. You can be sure that all of your details will be kept private, and can find someone that perfectly suits your preferences.

The One Night Stand!

Before you commit to a one night stand with a stranger, even when it has been approved by your partner, you should be prepared for the feelings they may hit you following the event so that natural negative responses don’t leave you feeling deflated.

For example, you may still experience feelings of guilt, or feel a strong bond with the person you have slept with which seems to be more than just a physical connection. This could lead to resenting your partner for suggesting that you go ahead with it, which may cause friction between the two of you.

As long as you are aware that these types of feelings might affect you, you can ensure that you feel totally comfortable with everything before you go ahead and start searching for someone to give you a bit of extramarital excitement.

If this is a situation that you find yourself in, think of it as an opportunity to enhance your relationship if it will make both of you happier in the long run, and don’t let the fact that it is a bit of a taboo hold you back.

The perks of casual dating

Casual dating is not for everyone, and if you are looking to form a serious relationship with someone it is definitely better to avoid getting into a casual situation…….BUT for some people, this type of dating means that they can get exactly what they want from a partner, with no strings attached.

There are many perks of casual dating, if you are the type of person who is not yet looking for something serious, and reading through them could make you feel like this is the right kind of dating for you.

It’s exciting!

One of the main perks of casual dating is that it brings a lot of excitement into the lives of those involved, due to knowing that when they meet up with someone, it is going to be to have fun, and nothing else.

You can purely choose to meet people that you know you will have a great time with, and there’s no pressure to speak to, or see them, again if the date didn’t go the way that you hoped it would.

Seeing people casually is also exciting as you can ensure that you always have the feelings that come at the beginning of a relationship, rather than worrying about whether they are going to develop into anything further, which is a great position to be in.

There’s no commitment 

Casual dating is perfect for people who do not want to commit to spending a certain amount of time with somebody, or change their lifestyle or routine to accommodate somebody else, especially those who have long working hours, and a hectic social life.

Dates can be scheduled specifically when you want to see someone, and can often be last minute too if you find yourself with some free time on your hands when you weren’t expecting it, as casual dating is completely flexible to suit the people involved.

This means that casual dating is ideal for you if you don’t have a lot of spare time, and have few responsibilities which would hold you back from going to meet someone if that was what you wanted to do.

Opportunity to experiment

Casual dating can give people the confidence to try things that they wouldn’t when searching for somebody to date seriously, as there is no pressure to act in a specific way, and if it gets a bit awkward, you never have to see them again!

When meeting somebody in the knowledge that it is nothing but a hook-up, it is a great opportunity to suggest experimenting sexually, and trying out things that you may not have had the chance to consider before.

It is also important to be open to anything that your partner might suggest, although you obviously don’t have to agree to anything that you don’t want to do, it can be a fun way to discover new things that you haven’t tried before though.

Thrill of the chase

When casual dating, you can choose to see a number of different partners if you’d like, which can be a great benefit for those who love the thrill of the chase, and dislike the idea of settling down with one person for a longer period of time.

If you get bored once the chase is over, casual dating gives you the chance to start the chase again with someone new whenever you like, or with multiple people at one time, without feeling guilty, and on your own terms. This is a win win situation for anyone who finds they get restless or bored quite quickly, especially when dating.

How to start casual dating

If you have decided that these perks of casual dating are exactly what you need in your life, you may be wondering how to start, and what the best way to find suitable people might be.

Finding people who have the same needs as you, and are also looking for a bit of fun rather than a relationship, is important, as hooking up with someone who may be hoping for something more serious could end up getting you into a complicated situation, which is completely the opposite of what you want.

The best way to find those who also want to date casually is by signing up to Naughty Seniors, as none of our members are searching for anything serious, so you can be sure that you are on the same page when it comes to your expectations.

Simply fill out our quick membership form, and start discovering people that could be perfect for your casual dating requirements, and you will be having no strings fun in no time at all.

What makes great sex with a stranger?

What makes great sex with a stranger?

Having sex with a stranger that you have met via an adult dating site is an exciting experience, and one where you don’t have to feel self-conscious, or worry about impressing them with witty conversation or interesting anecdotes, it’s all about having fun.

A great opportunity to have your needs met, and perhaps learn a new thing or two, having sex with a stranger is the perfect way to experiment things that you have always wanted to try, without any pressure or judgement.

Select a location

When you discuss where you are going to meet for your adult date it is important to decide on somewhere where you will both feel relaxed, so that there is no awkwardness and neither of you feel uncomfortable.

It may be that both of your homes are unsuitable, because either you live with others or you would prefer to keep your personal lives private, so opting for a hotel could be a better option, and adds a bit of extra mystery too 

Look great

If you are going to meet someone for sex for the first time, it is vital that you take time over your appearance, because you want to show that it is important to you that they find you attractive, and that you have made an effort with how you have chosen to present yourself.

Plus, you wouldn’t like it if they showed up looking like they hadn’t put much thought into their appearance either, so wear a great fragrance, and dress to impress, to ensure that you appear both well-groomed and confident when you meet up for your adult date.

Everything is sure to run far more smoothly following a great first impression.

Discuss your fantasies

Adult dating offers the perfect opportunity for experimenting, and could be a fantastic time to try out some of your wildest fantasies without feeling self-conscious.

Discussing these beforehand is the best option so you know that you are both happy with anything that you would like to try, plus it will also highlight any items that need to be brought along, including outfits or toys, in order to fulfil these fantasies too.

 Be openminded

As much as you want to try out some of your fantasies, it is likely that your partner will too, so make sure that you are openminded about anything that they suggest, but remember that you don’t have to agree to doing anything that you don’t want to.

You should be able to find a great balance that you can both really enjoy, and you might even find a few things that you love which you never thought you would.

Go with the flow

One of the benefits of adult dating is that you don’t have to stick to routine sex, and can feel free to mix it up and really make it memorable.

Sex is totally different with someone you don’t know compared to with someone who you are in a relationship with, so let your wild side take over from your sensitive side and feel free to go ahead with whatever feels good.

Avoid getting drunk

Although a bit of Dutch courage is never a bad idea when trying something new, getting too drunk could ruin the experience for you and your partner, as you may not perform as well, and could end up finding it difficult to enjoy it yourself.

In addition to this, too much booze could mean that you don’t remember what happened the next day, and you run the risk of feeling, and looking, awful, which isn’t ideal if you do end up wanting to see them again.

Practise safe sex

Probably something that you don’t think you need telling, but one of the worst ways to ruin a sexual experience is by regretting it later on because you didn’t practise safe sex.

It is neither yours nor your partner’s responsibility in particular, you both need to be sure that precautions are being taken, and, by making sure you don’t get caught up in the moment and forgetful, you know you’ll only feel great afterwards.

By following this advice, you can enjoy great sex with a stranger, and, if you need help finding the perfect partner, sign up to Naughty Seniors today and we guarantee that we will be able to assist you.

Tips for Planning a Dirty Weekend

A dirty weekend away is the ultimate indulgence, and planning where to go, and what to do when you get there, is all part of the fun.

It provides a great opportunity to get to know someone better, and works well as a truly intimate introduction, giving you the chance to focus only on each other, away from the pressures and mundanity of everyday life.

In order to plan the perfect dirty weekend, there are a few aspects which require consideration, to make sure that you have an exceptional time.

Woman in lingerie being kissed by a man during the common intimate shower

Pick your destination

The destination that you choose for your dirty weekend needs to be somewhere that turns you and your partner on, and this is different for everyone, and completely down to personal preference.

For example, you might choose a fancy hotel where you can roll around in luxurious sheets, surrounded by rose petals, with champagne on tap, or you might enjoy the thought of throwing each other around a cheap and dirty motel with nothing other than each other to keep you occupied.

The thought of travelling to a different country for a dirty weekend is erotic for many people, and with so many European cities in easy reach, it doesn’t take a lot of time to travel to somewhere a little more exotic. Plus, being in a different country really will ensure that all thoughts of home are pushed from your mind.

If you are considering spending at least some time out of the bedroom, it is worth taking a look at what activities are available for you to take part in during the day. A relaxing spa, visit to a strip club, or drinking in intimate bars, are popular choices for dirty weekends, and a little bit of sightseeing can give your mind a break from dirty thoughts if needed.

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Pack your bag

A dirty weekend should include playing out plenty of your fantasies, some of which may include dressing up, or using various sex toys, so it is vital that you remember to pack everything that will help you to achieve all that you want to while you are away.

Discussing what you’d like to do over the weekend will not only get you both in the mood, and raise your excitement levels, but it will also help you to decide what you need to take along, and give you the opportunity to purchase any additional items that you may require.

Even though you may not be wearing anything for a lot of the weekend, ensure that only your sexiest underwear makes the cut, and perhaps make it even more extravagant to make your time away different to when you spend nights together back at home.

If you are travelling abroad and taking battery operated sex toys with you, we advise that you pack the batteries separately to avoid any vibrating issues when your bags go through security, a dirty weekend is not the time for awkward situations.

Indulge yourselves

Your dirty weekend away should be a time where you can completely indulge yourselves without feeling guilty or worrying about anything, and you especially don’t want to have to deny yourself, or your partner, anything during your trip.

Whether it is ordering carb and sugar filled room service, drinking one too many bottles of champagne, or spending money on new underwear or toys, you should feel free to do what you like, when you like, with no repercussions.

It is fun to aim to engage and indulge all of your senses while on a dirty weekend, so using scented massage oils and lotions, experimenting with food, and choosing suitable music, or an erotic movie to play in the background, are all fun ways to add some extra dimensions to your time away.

You should also ensure that there is no news from home or work which will distract you, and the best way to do this is to switch off all mobile devices, and avoid reading messages or emails, and stay clear of checking your social media accounts, the weekend should just be about the two of you, with no interruptions.

With these details in mind, you should be able to plan an unforgettable dirty weekend that you will want to recreate again and again, perhaps with different location to add some variety if necessary.

If you need a partner to share a dirty weekend with, we would be happy to help you, just sign up for free on our website to get started.

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Naughty Seniors Reviews

Its always nice to hear from our customers good and bad, because we are always trying to improve on our service so we encourage everyone to get in touch. Last week we received an email from a guy called Harry who has been a member for 7 months and finally met someone.


Ive been a member for the last 7 months and been happy with the service. I have met a few women from your site over this time and at last I have found one that I would like to settle down with. I only joined naughty seniors to meet one night stands but when the right one comes along you have to grab that opportunity with both hands. I have now decided to leave your site so would you please delete my details from your system please.

Harry x


See is not just for people that want sex, we can find you love 🙂 We wish Harry and his new lady the very best of luck in the future.

Naughty Seniors Everything you need to know about the Big O

Everything You Need to Know About the Big ‘O’

So you love orgasms? Great, so do we! But do you know enough about them and are you getting enough of them? Here at Naughtyseniors your sexual happiness is important to us and we’re dedicated to making your sex life the best it can be. That’s why we’re here to give you the low down on the big ‘O’.

It’s a chemical thing

  1. Orgasms boost levels of serotonin – a chemical that‘s vital for all-round health and happiness. You also produce testosterone when you orgasm, which helps to protect your heart.
  2. Orgasms improve your circulation, allowing oxygen and nutrients to enter your bloodstream more freely.
  3. Orgasms can help you lose weight. During climax your body produces phenylamine, a natural chemical that controls appetite. Not to mention the work out you get in lead up!
  4. Oxytocin, the chemical released during sex, is also a natural sedative and will help you some much needed rest after expending all that energy between-the-sheets.

Own your orgasm

Many women probably think they’re alone in not being able to reach orgasm through penetrative sex (a condition known as Anorgasmia) but they’re not. As many as 1 in 3 women have trouble reaching orgasm when having sex and around 80% of women have trouble achieving an orgasm through vaginal intercourse alone. In fact, most women need around 20 minutes or arousal time in order to be able to reach orgasm. Read on to find out Naughty Seniors top tips for owning your orgasm

Unwind – You’re not going to be in the right frame of mind to reach orgasm if you’re tense or stressed. So before you even think about trying to reach pleasure town, make sure you’re relaxed. Run yourself a nice hot bubble bath, using some essential oils, and light some candles. Then lie back and enjoy.

Mental arousal –Start thinking about something that turns you on – perhaps your own genitalia. Focus on that image, at the same time as taking long, deep breaths, and allow your mind to become excited.

Explore The key to achieving an orgasm lies in getting to know your own body. After all, how can you expect anyone to know what you like when you don’t even know yourself? So let your hands take a little wander downstairs and experiment with what feels good.

Do it tonight!

  • Enhance intercourse with toys! One of the best sex toys for couples is the We Vibe – a vibrator that the woman wears inside her during sex. The combination of intercourse and good vibrations will no doubt induce some pretty earth shattering sensations.


  • Women love a man who’s good with his hands; so show her just how magic your fingers are. Rather than go straight in for direct stimulation start by touching her through her underwear to build anticipation. Focus on slow circular motions inside her whilst at the same time spending time stimulating her clitoris and PS-spot (the area that lies between the vaginal opening and the rectum). When you feel the walls of her vagina begin to contract, hop aboard and enter her. However, instead of going in with deep thrusts, enter her in missionary position and lift the base of your penis up so it’s rubbing against her clitoris. Continue in slow rocking motions to stimulate her clit until she reaches climax. Missionary accomplished!


Why not sign up to Naughty Senior today or log in to your account and find someone to have the orgasm of your life with tonight!


29 facts about sex to help you improve your sex life and have a better time in the bedroom…


People who have sex 4 times a week can look 10 years younger.


Orgasms can boost brain activity as much as doing crosswords.


Men spend an extra 5 seconds looking a women’s lips if they’re wearing lipstick.

READ: 4 juice recipes to awaken your libido


Couples who run together have more sex.


The average woman finds 10 days of beard growth the most attractive.


Women who sleep for 9 hours are 25% more likely to get pregnant.

7/ BIG 0

Women who masturbate are less likely to struggle to reach the big O during sex.

READ: 8 Reasons Masturbation Is Good For Your Health


Eating apples can increase your sexual satisfaction.


It takes most men less than 1 second to look at a woman’s breasts.


Half a pint of beer a day can reduce sperm count by 33%.


Sex is great for your back! An orgasm has 10 times the anxiety-reducing effect as Valium.


People who have sex once or twice weekly have better immune systems than people who have sex less than once a week.

READ: 4 ways alcohol affects your body

13/  HUGS

Start a day with a 20-second hug. A long hug releases the hormone oxytocin, which produces feelings of trust and attachment.


92% of couples that went to the gym together continued to do so after a year and reported better sexual satisfaction.


Trying something new or exciting before sex delivers a burst of dopamine that activates the pleasure centres in your brain.

16/ PORN

Watch porn together. Studies have shown those who do are more sexuality satisfied and a greater level of communication.


Eat your green veg. This will help dilate blood vessels and create greater arousal.


Begin your day with morning sex. This will release the feel-good chemical oxytocin.

READ: Juicy tuesday: cleansing alkaline green


Next time you’re on a date, order the sugary cocktails. You may be more attracted to people during a sugar rush because your brain associates sweet flavours with the concept of romance


Turns out that second glass of pinot might be a bad idea after all: booze raises your odds of contracting HPV, claims a study in Sexually Transmitted Infections.


Keep it subtle. Research shows 32% of men find x-rated texts a turn-off. Mystery is sexy.



The neck has a high concentration of light-touch receptors so encourage him to rub or or suck says Sexologist Carol Queen.


This will awaken your senses and the fears of getting caught will ad an extra thrill says Dr Sandor Grados.


Being louder in the bedroom can make you more turned on by creating ‘vibrations in the diaphragm and increasing oxygen intake to the brain’.

The real secrets to amazing sex are honesty, trust, and communication.


A study from the University of Sao Paolo, Brazil shows that resistance training improves arousal and sexual desire in women.

So double your strength session and get working your pelvic floor.


A US study by Drexel University in Philadelphia reveals the female brain responds better to romantic cues after eating. Time to start feeding your sex life.


Sex expert Annabelle knight suggests adopting ‘the stretching cat pose’ which involves pushing your bum upwards, making his thrusts feel deeper.


Good sex comes to those who wait- a recent study from the Journal of Sex Research, shows men and women get the best orgasm when the build slowly and pause before climax.


Try tearing off your flannelette and jump-starting the action on a Saturday night; it could leave your man more aroused and have you both rating your relationship higher in terms of satisfaction, stability and communication.

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Naughty Seniors – 3 Great Sex Techniques to Make a Woman Orgasm

Many men are frustrated with their inability to bring their female partners to orgasm while others need something new to spice things up in the bedroom. When it comes to making a woman orgasm, you need to know a variety of sex techniques. It isn’t enough to simply learn one or two different ways to make your partner climax. You need a repertoire of sex techniques that you can use to lead her to sexual bliss. These three are tried and tested way to give women sexual pleasure.

1) Stroking the Chest

When it comes to getting a woman aroused for sex, foreplay is an absolute necessity. Otherwise, more often than not, you will find that she just isn’t “in the mood.” Giving her a sensual massage is always an effective technique because it can get her in the mood fairly quickly.

One sensual massage technique that you can try is the “Stroking the Chest.”To perform the “Stroking the Chest” technique, press the full, flat surface of your hands out from the center of the chest to the edge of where you want to move. Then return to the starting point, all the while keeping your contact pressure steady and even throughout the stroke.

2) Suplex Her Cunnilingus Position

Performing oral sex on a woman is one of the best ways to bring her to orgasm, and the “Suplex Her” cunnilingus position is one of the better oral sex positions. To get into this position, you sit on a sofa, chair, or edge of the bed while she lies on her back with her shoulders or head touching the floor to support her weight. You can use some pillows or cushions to make the position more comfortable. You can then bend over and start licking her vagina. She can hold on to your legs for added support or use the floor to find balance and support her weight.

3) Crab Sex Position

It’s good to have a variety of sex positions that you can use in order to bring a woman to orgasm. One of the best is the “Crab Sex Position” because of the G-Spot stimulation that it provides.

to get into the Crab position, both of you should sit on the bed with your legs pointing towards one another. Then both of you should lie back slightly and support your weight with your arms. She then moves towards you, spreads her legs and keeps her legs on top of the your hips and allows you to enter her. The Crab sex position is great because it allows eye contact and you can easily switch to the a woman-on-top or the missionary from this position.

You can experiment with these three sex techniques one at a time, or use them all during single sex session. When you use them, be sure to take your time so that your partner has time to get aroused by them. Sex isn’t a race, after all.

One of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being “sure” if he had given his woman a orgasm. Imagine being so sexually skilled that you can literally give ANY woman orgasms. To discover the secrets to giving your woman the best sex she’s ever had, click here!