What makes great sex with a stranger?

What makes great sex with a stranger?

Having sex with a stranger that you have met via an adult dating site is an exciting experience, and one where you don’t have to feel self-conscious, or worry about impressing them with witty conversation or interesting anecdotes, it’s all about having fun.

A great opportunity to have your needs met, and perhaps learn a new thing or two, having sex with a stranger is the perfect way to experiment things that you have always wanted to try, without any pressure or judgement.

Select a location

When you discuss where you are going to meet for your adult date it is important to decide on somewhere where you will both feel relaxed, so that there is no awkwardness and neither of you feel uncomfortable.

It may be that both of your homes are unsuitable, because either you live with others or you would prefer to keep your personal lives private, so opting for a hotel could be a better option, and adds a bit of extra mystery too 

Look great

If you are going to meet someone for sex for the first time, it is vital that you take time over your appearance, because you want to show that it is important to you that they find you attractive, and that you have made an effort with how you have chosen to present yourself.

Plus, you wouldn’t like it if they showed up looking like they hadn’t put much thought into their appearance either, so wear a great fragrance, and dress to impress, to ensure that you appear both well-groomed and confident when you meet up for your adult date.

Everything is sure to run far more smoothly following a great first impression.

Discuss your fantasies

Adult dating offers the perfect opportunity for experimenting, and could be a fantastic time to try out some of your wildest fantasies without feeling self-conscious.

Discussing these beforehand is the best option so you know that you are both happy with anything that you would like to try, plus it will also highlight any items that need to be brought along, including outfits or toys, in order to fulfil these fantasies too.

 Be openminded

As much as you want to try out some of your fantasies, it is likely that your partner will too, so make sure that you are openminded about anything that they suggest, but remember that you don’t have to agree to doing anything that you don’t want to.

You should be able to find a great balance that you can both really enjoy, and you might even find a few things that you love which you never thought you would.

Go with the flow

One of the benefits of adult dating is that you don’t have to stick to routine sex, and can feel free to mix it up and really make it memorable.

Sex is totally different with someone you don’t know compared to with someone who you are in a relationship with, so let your wild side take over from your sensitive side and feel free to go ahead with whatever feels good.

Avoid getting drunk

Although a bit of Dutch courage is never a bad idea when trying something new, getting too drunk could ruin the experience for you and your partner, as you may not perform as well, and could end up finding it difficult to enjoy it yourself.

In addition to this, too much booze could mean that you don’t remember what happened the next day, and you run the risk of feeling, and looking, awful, which isn’t ideal if you do end up wanting to see them again.

Practise safe sex

Probably something that you don’t think you need telling, but one of the worst ways to ruin a sexual experience is by regretting it later on because you didn’t practise safe sex.

It is neither yours nor your partner’s responsibility in particular, you both need to be sure that precautions are being taken, and, by making sure you don’t get caught up in the moment and forgetful, you know you’ll only feel great afterwards.

By following this advice, you can enjoy great sex with a stranger, and, if you need help finding the perfect partner, sign up to Naughty Seniors today and we guarantee that we will be able to assist you.

Tips for Planning a Dirty Weekend

A dirty weekend away is the ultimate indulgence, and planning where to go, and what to do when you get there, is all part of the fun.

It provides a great opportunity to get to know someone better, and works well as a truly intimate introduction, giving you the chance to focus only on each other, away from the pressures and mundanity of everyday life.

In order to plan the perfect dirty weekend, there are a few aspects which require consideration, to make sure that you have an exceptional time.

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Pick your destination

The destination that you choose for your dirty weekend needs to be somewhere that turns you and your partner on, and this is different for everyone, and completely down to personal preference.

For example, you might choose a fancy hotel where you can roll around in luxurious sheets, surrounded by rose petals, with champagne on tap, or you might enjoy the thought of throwing each other around a cheap and dirty motel with nothing other than each other to keep you occupied.

The thought of travelling to a different country for a dirty weekend is erotic for many people, and with so many European cities in easy reach, it doesn’t take a lot of time to travel to somewhere a little more exotic. Plus, being in a different country really will ensure that all thoughts of home are pushed from your mind.

If you are considering spending at least some time out of the bedroom, it is worth taking a look at what activities are available for you to take part in during the day. A relaxing spa, visit to a strip club, or drinking in intimate bars, are popular choices for dirty weekends, and a little bit of sightseeing can give your mind a break from dirty thoughts if needed.

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Pack your bag

A dirty weekend should include playing out plenty of your fantasies, some of which may include dressing up, or using various sex toys, so it is vital that you remember to pack everything that will help you to achieve all that you want to while you are away.

Discussing what you’d like to do over the weekend will not only get you both in the mood, and raise your excitement levels, but it will also help you to decide what you need to take along, and give you the opportunity to purchase any additional items that you may require.

Even though you may not be wearing anything for a lot of the weekend, ensure that only your sexiest underwear makes the cut, and perhaps make it even more extravagant to make your time away different to when you spend nights together back at home.

If you are travelling abroad and taking battery operated sex toys with you, we advise that you pack the batteries separately to avoid any vibrating issues when your bags go through security, a dirty weekend is not the time for awkward situations.

Indulge yourselves

Your dirty weekend away should be a time where you can completely indulge yourselves without feeling guilty or worrying about anything, and you especially don’t want to have to deny yourself, or your partner, anything during your trip.

Whether it is ordering carb and sugar filled room service, drinking one too many bottles of champagne, or spending money on new underwear or toys, you should feel free to do what you like, when you like, with no repercussions.

It is fun to aim to engage and indulge all of your senses while on a dirty weekend, so using scented massage oils and lotions, experimenting with food, and choosing suitable music, or an erotic movie to play in the background, are all fun ways to add some extra dimensions to your time away.

You should also ensure that there is no news from home or work which will distract you, and the best way to do this is to switch off all mobile devices, and avoid reading messages or emails, and stay clear of checking your social media accounts, the weekend should just be about the two of you, with no interruptions.

With these details in mind, you should be able to plan an unforgettable dirty weekend that you will want to recreate again and again, perhaps with different location to add some variety if necessary.

If you need a partner to share a dirty weekend with, we would be happy to help you, just sign up for free on our website to get started.

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