The perks of casual dating

Casual dating is not for everyone, and if you are looking to form a serious relationship with someone it is definitely better to avoid getting into a casual situation…….BUT for some people, this type of dating means that they can get exactly what they want from a partner, with no strings attached.

There are many perks of casual dating, if you are the type of person who is not yet looking for something serious, and reading through them could make you feel like this is the right kind of dating for you.

It’s exciting!

One of the main perks of casual dating is that it brings a lot of excitement into the lives of those involved, due to knowing that when they meet up with someone, it is going to be to have fun, and nothing else.

You can purely choose to meet people that you know you will have a great time with, and there’s no pressure to speak to, or see them, again if the date didn’t go the way that you hoped it would.

Seeing people casually is also exciting as you can ensure that you always have the feelings that come at the beginning of a relationship, rather than worrying about whether they are going to develop into anything further, which is a great position to be in.

There’s no commitment 

Casual dating is perfect for people who do not want to commit to spending a certain amount of time with somebody, or change their lifestyle or routine to accommodate somebody else, especially those who have long working hours, and a hectic social life.

Dates can be scheduled specifically when you want to see someone, and can often be last minute too if you find yourself with some free time on your hands when you weren’t expecting it, as casual dating is completely flexible to suit the people involved.

This means that casual dating is ideal for you if you don’t have a lot of spare time, and have few responsibilities which would hold you back from going to meet someone if that was what you wanted to do.

Opportunity to experiment

Casual dating can give people the confidence to try things that they wouldn’t when searching for somebody to date seriously, as there is no pressure to act in a specific way, and if it gets a bit awkward, you never have to see them again!

When meeting somebody in the knowledge that it is nothing but a hook-up, it is a great opportunity to suggest experimenting sexually, and trying out things that you may not have had the chance to consider before.

It is also important to be open to anything that your partner might suggest, although you obviously don’t have to agree to anything that you don’t want to do, it can be a fun way to discover new things that you haven’t tried before though.

Thrill of the chase

When casual dating, you can choose to see a number of different partners if you’d like, which can be a great benefit for those who love the thrill of the chase, and dislike the idea of settling down with one person for a longer period of time.

If you get bored once the chase is over, casual dating gives you the chance to start the chase again with someone new whenever you like, or with multiple people at one time, without feeling guilty, and on your own terms. This is a win win situation for anyone who finds they get restless or bored quite quickly, especially when dating.

How to start casual dating

If you have decided that these perks of casual dating are exactly what you need in your life, you may be wondering how to start, and what the best way to find suitable people might be.

Finding people who have the same needs as you, and are also looking for a bit of fun rather than a relationship, is important, as hooking up with someone who may be hoping for something more serious could end up getting you into a complicated situation, which is completely the opposite of what you want.

The best way to find those who also want to date casually is by signing up to Naughty Seniors, as none of our members are searching for anything serious, so you can be sure that you are on the same page when it comes to your expectations.

Simply fill out our quick membership form, and start discovering people that could be perfect for your casual dating requirements, and you will be having no strings fun in no time at all.

Tips for Planning a Dirty Weekend

A dirty weekend away is the ultimate indulgence, and planning where to go, and what to do when you get there, is all part of the fun.

It provides a great opportunity to get to know someone better, and works well as a truly intimate introduction, giving you the chance to focus only on each other, away from the pressures and mundanity of everyday life.

In order to plan the perfect dirty weekend, there are a few aspects which require consideration, to make sure that you have an exceptional time.

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Pick your destination

The destination that you choose for your dirty weekend needs to be somewhere that turns you and your partner on, and this is different for everyone, and completely down to personal preference.

For example, you might choose a fancy hotel where you can roll around in luxurious sheets, surrounded by rose petals, with champagne on tap, or you might enjoy the thought of throwing each other around a cheap and dirty motel with nothing other than each other to keep you occupied.

The thought of travelling to a different country for a dirty weekend is erotic for many people, and with so many European cities in easy reach, it doesn’t take a lot of time to travel to somewhere a little more exotic. Plus, being in a different country really will ensure that all thoughts of home are pushed from your mind.

If you are considering spending at least some time out of the bedroom, it is worth taking a look at what activities are available for you to take part in during the day. A relaxing spa, visit to a strip club, or drinking in intimate bars, are popular choices for dirty weekends, and a little bit of sightseeing can give your mind a break from dirty thoughts if needed.

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Pack your bag

A dirty weekend should include playing out plenty of your fantasies, some of which may include dressing up, or using various sex toys, so it is vital that you remember to pack everything that will help you to achieve all that you want to while you are away.

Discussing what you’d like to do over the weekend will not only get you both in the mood, and raise your excitement levels, but it will also help you to decide what you need to take along, and give you the opportunity to purchase any additional items that you may require.

Even though you may not be wearing anything for a lot of the weekend, ensure that only your sexiest underwear makes the cut, and perhaps make it even more extravagant to make your time away different to when you spend nights together back at home.

If you are travelling abroad and taking battery operated sex toys with you, we advise that you pack the batteries separately to avoid any vibrating issues when your bags go through security, a dirty weekend is not the time for awkward situations.

Indulge yourselves

Your dirty weekend away should be a time where you can completely indulge yourselves without feeling guilty or worrying about anything, and you especially don’t want to have to deny yourself, or your partner, anything during your trip.

Whether it is ordering carb and sugar filled room service, drinking one too many bottles of champagne, or spending money on new underwear or toys, you should feel free to do what you like, when you like, with no repercussions.

It is fun to aim to engage and indulge all of your senses while on a dirty weekend, so using scented massage oils and lotions, experimenting with food, and choosing suitable music, or an erotic movie to play in the background, are all fun ways to add some extra dimensions to your time away.

You should also ensure that there is no news from home or work which will distract you, and the best way to do this is to switch off all mobile devices, and avoid reading messages or emails, and stay clear of checking your social media accounts, the weekend should just be about the two of you, with no interruptions.

With these details in mind, you should be able to plan an unforgettable dirty weekend that you will want to recreate again and again, perhaps with different location to add some variety if necessary.

If you need a partner to share a dirty weekend with, we would be happy to help you, just sign up for free on our website to get started.

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