Having sex with a stranger that you have met via an adult dating site is an exciting experience, and one where you don’t have to feel self-conscious, or worry about impressing them with witty conversation or interesting anecdotes, it’s all about having fun.
A great opportunity to have your needs met, and perhaps learn a new thing or two, having sex with a stranger is the perfect way to experiment things that you have always wanted to try, without any pressure or judgement.
Select a location
When you discuss where you are going to meet for your adult date it is important to decide on somewhere where you will both feel relaxed, so that there is no awkwardness and neither of you feel uncomfortable.
It may be that both of your homes are unsuitable, because either you live with others or you would prefer to keep your personal lives private, so opting for a hotel could be a better option, and adds a bit of extra mystery too
If you are going to meet someone for sex for the first time, it is vital that you take time over your appearance, because you want to show that it is important to you that they find you attractive, and that you have made an effort with how you have chosen to present yourself.
Plus, you wouldn’t like it if they showed up looking like they hadn’t put much thought into their appearance either, so wear a great fragrance, and dress to impress, to ensure that you appear both well-groomed and confident when you meet up for your adult date.
Everything is sure to run far more smoothly following a great first impression.
Discuss your fantasies
Adult dating offers the perfect opportunity for experimenting, and could be a fantastic time to try out some of your wildest fantasies without feeling self-conscious.
Discussing these beforehand is the best option so you know that you are both happy with anything that you would like to try, plus it will also highlight any items that need to be brought along, including outfits or toys, in order to fulfil these fantasies too.
As much as you want to try out some of your fantasies, it is likely that your partner will too, so make sure that you are openminded about anything that they suggest, but remember that you don’t have to agree to doing anything that you don’t want to.
You should be able to find a great balance that you can both really enjoy, and you might even find a few things that you love which you never thought you would.
Go with the flow
One of the benefits of adult dating is that you don’t have to stick to routine sex, and can feel free to mix it up and really make it memorable.
Sex is totally different with someone you don’t know compared to with someone who you are in a relationship with, so let your wild side take over from your sensitive side and feel free to go ahead with whatever feels good.
Avoid getting drunk
Although a bit of Dutch courage is never a bad idea when trying something new, getting too drunk could ruin the experience for you and your partner, as you may not perform as well, and could end up finding it difficult to enjoy it yourself.
In addition to this, too much booze could mean that you don’t remember what happened the next day, and you run the risk of feeling, and looking, awful, which isn’t ideal if you do end up wanting to see them again.
Probably something that you don’t think you need telling, but one of the worst ways to ruin a sexual experience is by regretting it later on because you didn’t practise safe sex.
It is neither yours nor your partner’s responsibility in particular, you both need to be sure that precautions are being taken, and, by making sure you don’t get caught up in the moment and forgetful, you know you’ll only feel great afterwards.
By following this advice, you can enjoy great sex with a stranger, and, if you need help finding the perfect partner, sign up to Naughty Seniors today and we guarantee that we will be able to assist you.